Safety Tips
Your safety is our priority. Follow these guidelines to ensure safe and positive experiences when making connections.
Essential Safety Guidelines
Verify Before You Meet
Always verify the person's identity through video calls or additional photos before meeting in person.
- Request a video call before meeting
- Ask for additional recent photos
- Verify their social media profiles
- Trust your instincts if something feels off
Meet in Public Places
Always choose public, well-lit locations for your first meetings.
- Meet in busy restaurants or cafes
- Avoid private or isolated locations
- Let someone know where you're going
- Have your own transportation
Protect Your Personal Information
Be cautious about sharing sensitive personal details too quickly.
- Don't share your home address immediately
- Be careful with financial information
- Use the platform's messaging initially
- Gradually build trust over time
Communication Safety
Use safe communication practices when connecting with new people.
- Start with platform messaging
- Use a separate phone number initially
- Be wary of requests for money
- Report suspicious behavior immediately
Warning Signs to Watch For
Be alert to these potential red flags that may indicate fraudulent or unsafe behavior:
Asks for money or financial assistance
Refuses to video chat or talk on the phone
Has very few photos or photos that look professional
Stories don't add up or change over time
Pushes to meet immediately or move off the platform
Uses overly romantic language very quickly
Claims to be traveling or unable to meet for extended periods
Asks for personal information like SSN or bank details
Online Connection Best Practices
Before Meeting
- • Exchange multiple photos
- • Have video conversations
- • Verify their identity
- • Research their background
- • Trust your instincts
During the Meeting
- • Meet in public places
- • Tell someone your plans
- • Have your own transportation
- • Keep your phone charged
- • Stay alert and sober
After Meeting
- • Check in with friends
- • Take time to reflect
- • Continue building trust slowly
- • Report any concerns
- • Follow your comfort level
Emergency Resources
Emergency Numbers
- • Emergency Services: 911
- • National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
- • Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
Safety Apps
- • Share your location with trusted contacts
- • Use safety check-in apps
- • Keep emergency contacts easily accessible